2. Keep it small<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n That\u2019s it. Daily, because you\u2019re carving new neural pathways that form only with repetition. Small, because they\u2019re tiny enough to sneak past our defense systems and start to inoculate us against change resistance.<\/p>\n\n\n\n This small initial step should take no more than one to two minutes to complete. I encourage clients to think of this as a limbo contest: How low can you go? Lower the bar for a new habit\u2019s size until it\u2019s so low you laugh out loud. Want to get in better shape and run a marathon, but the only marathon you currently engage in is a Netflix binge? Start by establishing a Micro Habit of putting on your sneakers once a day and walking up and down the steps of your front porch. Aiming to clean your messy closet? Start by folding one sweater. Looking to start a meditation practice? Begin with one mindful breath. It sounds absurd, but it works.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Here are a few real-life examples from my clients:<\/p>\n\n\n\n <\/p>\n\n\n\n By being low stakes, Micro Habits are a safe experiment. They allow you to see what happens if you break the habit loop and step outside your comfort zone. Did the sky fall if you said no to one invitation? Did you miss out on anything that urgent if you did not check your email during one meeting?<\/p>\n\n\n\n The low-stakes nature of Micro Habits also bolsters our resilience. We build resilience through recovering from failure. Fall down, get up, repeat: that\u2019s the process for establishing better adaptive responses to pressure. It\u2019s also the way we learned how to walk when young. Did we give up and tell ourselves we were failures because we fell? We probably laughed and tried it again. It\u2019s the same way we build musculature now: stress the muscle and create tiny tears in the fibers, which then recover stronger and better equipped to lift heavier weights the next go-around. The process of recovering from failure also builds the prefrontal cortex\u2014the area associated with regulating emotions and decision-making\u2014and tamps down the amygdala\u2014which triggers fight-or-flight reactivity. So failure is not necessarily a bad thing. Sociologist Dr. Christine Carter says unless we\u2019re willing to be bad at first, it\u2019s hard to feel good about adopting a new habit. With a Micro Habit we fail small and recover more easily.<\/p>\n\n\n\n When I introduce the practice of Micro Habits, clients will often scoff. They raise an eyebrow and say, \u201cBut Sabina, this is ridiculous. I can\u2019t do only one push-up a day!\u201d That\u2019s when I know they\u2019ve identified a true Micro Habit. If it feels utterly ridiculous, you\u2019re on target. Try this process right now:<\/p>\n\n\n\n 1.<\/strong> Think of a goal you want to achieve. It can be anything, professional or personal.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 2.<\/strong> Next, think of one step you can take to make progress on it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 3.<\/strong> STOP RIGHT THERE.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 4.<\/strong> Now halve the size of that step, then slash it again, and then a little more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 5.<\/strong> Keep going until it almost takes more effort to write out the Micro Habit than it will take to do it. You might laugh at the size of this new habit. If you consider it too puny to share with anyone, you\u2019re there.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 6. <\/strong>Now trying doing it every day without fail.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Making your new habit truly micro improves the odds you\u2019ll stick to it, because the only thing more ridiculous than this tiny habit is not accomplishing such a miniscule task. But the impact of those minuscule tasks adds up quickly. As author and columnist Arianna Huffington says, \u201cBy making very small changes, you have the power to change your life.\u201d<\/p>\n\n\n\n 1. Change the scenery. <\/strong>Switching venue has been proven to improve the chance of success in altering habits. Outside our usual surroundings, our brains disconnect from their automated wiring. Contextual cues in our familiar surroundings are triggers for automated habits. If you rarely eat Peanut M&Ms other than when you go to the theater but can think of nothing other than those crunchy colorful candies the minute you take your seat before the show starts, that\u2019s what I mean by a \u201ccontextual cue.\u201d Put this tip into practice by physically moving out of the space where the usual behaviors play out and choosing a new one in which to practice your Micro Habit. If your Micro Habit is to spend less time scrolling through your phone, for instance, and you generally do that while eating lunch at your desk, go sit in the cafeteria at lunchtime and talk to someone instead.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 2. Piggyback the habit.<\/strong> Create new contextual cues by linking your Micro Habit to an existing routine. Learn one new word in a foreign language while brushing your teeth. Write your strategic intention for the day while drinking your morning coffee. Do your one paragraph of reading on your train ride home.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 3. Track it. <\/strong>After you complete your Micro Habit for the day, be sure to physically note its completion.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 4. Stay small for longer than you think you need to.<\/strong> Before you declare victory and increase the size of your new activity, hold steady for at least four weeks to fully ingrain the habit. If we extend our reach too fast, we will fail more readily and then give it up the next day. Productive failure is one thing; setting oneself up for futility is another. Leave yourself looking forward to the next day, excited to pick up where you left off rather than feeling too discouraged to tackle what felt onerous the day before. Many of my \u00fcber-successful clients fail at some point in their Micro Habit journey because they try to go from micro to medium to macro too fast. If you find yourself in this situation, simply go back to the original micro-sized habit.<\/p>\n\n\n\n 5. If you\u2019re not succeeding, go smaller. <\/strong>Slash and then slash again. The smaller the habit, the greater your likelihood to stick with it and build the stamina to keep going. Again, if that feels ridiculous to you, remember that a ridiculously small change is better than none at all.<\/p>\n\n\n\n Excerpted from\u00a0<\/em>You\u2019re the Boss\u00a0by Sabina Nawaz. 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